Cut The Conflicts & Complaints From Parents & Coaches And Keep Kids Playing Year After Year

Helping youth sports organizations get busy parents & coaches on the same page by providing short online education courses

FREE Guide

Drama-Free Youth Sports Organizations


Discover How To Cut Conflicts, Slash Complaints, & Keep Kids Playing Season After Season

Fewer Problems In Associations

Kids Beg To Play Season After Season

A Simple & Easy-To-Implement System

(5-Minute Read)

70% Of Kids Quit Sports By Age 13

The Youth Sports Problem

Well-Meaning Adults Are Accidentally Sucking The Fun Out of Sports


Today, 70% of kids quit sports by age 13.  The #1 reason they quit is because they’re not having fun anymore. However, it’s NOT just the “crazy” parents & coaches who are damaging youth sports.

As a youth sports organization leader,

are you tired of hearing…

My son should have made the A-team. The tryouts are political.

My daughter deserves a lot more playing time. She should be starting.

The coach is terrible. The players are losing a year of development.

As a youth sports parent or coach,

do you worry about…

Am I pushing my athletes too hard, or not hard enough?

My player's confidence is like a rollercoaster. How can I help?

My kids might not make the team if they don't do extra skills training.

The Youth Sports Solution

 Sports Parents & Coach Education Made Simple Through The Iceberg System


Imagine what it could be like in your organization…

You have fewer conflicts and complaints because hot button issues like playing time, team selection, and player development are addressed.

Parents understand what things hurt their child’s youth sports experience and what things often strain parent-athlete relationships.

Coaches recognize the actions that accidentally crush an athlete’s confidence or steal their love for the game.

Positive sideline behavior develops without you enforcing any new rules.

Kids have a blast and beg to play in your organization season after season.

What Makes The Iceberg system Different?


Sports Parents & Coaches Become Wise

It stops WELL-MEANING parents & coaches from accidentally sucking the fun out of sports by making sure they don’t put too much pressure on athletes or unintentionally decrease their confidence with hasty remarks or actions. So kids have a blast & play year after year.  

Parent & Coach Education Is Combined

Parents & coaches take the same courses, so they get on the same page about what it takes to create an amazing youth sports experience for kids. When parents & coaches work as a team, rather than against each other, associations have fewer conflicts & complaints.

The Program Is Easy For Everyone

It’s made for busy people. It’s a curriculum of short online courses for parents & coaches of 3rd-8th grade athletes. Parents & coaches only take ONE 30-MINUTE course per year.  The Iceberg System is simple for associations to implement, making it easy for everyone.

Three simple steps

How The Process Works



Book A Chat

Get your questions answered. After talking, get FREE access to the first course and vet the program yourself.


Schedule A Group Presentation

Book a 10-minute Zoom or in-person meeting with your board. See if The Iceberg System fits your association.


Watch Your Association Thrive

Enjoy fewer headaches and hassles with parents & coaches as your kids love playing season after season.

What People Are Saying About The Iceberg System


“I thought these videos were awesome! I love how they are short and get right to the point. The parent-child relationship is spot-on! My kids watched lessons 1 & 3 and they were locked in and had very positive feedback.”

Brad Keenan

Boys Traveling Coordinator, Chaska Area Youth Basketball Association

“These videos were really awesome!  I would love for all parents, coaches and athletes to have these!!”

Rachel Falkowski

Parent of 3 youth athletes

“I thought the lessons were excellent.  The concise presentation of the information was very good.  I thought the lessons were a fantastic summary of parent issues without being too preachy.  They were a great length.  Nice work!”

Daniel Harrison

President, Cottage Grove Athletic Association

Let’s Keep Youth Sports Fun

Hi, I’m Lynnelle Sell

Founder, Iceberg Sports Education


I believe parents have the best intentions to help their kids succeed. Unfortunately, the best intentions can have unexpected and sometimes damaging consequences.  This can cause issues not only for the child, but also for coaches, officials, and youth sports organizations.

I understand the difficulty in knowing how hard to push your athlete. You want your child to develop to their fullest potential and reach their dreams, but you don’t want to hurt your relationship or push them to burnout.

I also know the gut-wrenching feeling of watching your athlete’s confidence and love for the game being crushed minute by minute as they sit on the bench or get yelled at for making a mistake.

I made mistakes as a youth sports parent, but thankfully I learned many important lessons along the way.

I developed The Iceberg System to help youth sports organizations cut the drama, conflicts, and complaints so kids love playing and keep coming back season after season. 

So, if you’re interested in The Iceberg System, please schedule a quick chat. I’ll answer any questions you have. I’d also like to learn about any issues or challenges in your association and what you’re hoping to achieve through parent & coach education. 


Minneapolis, MN